tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post7119729597817745325..comments2023-10-24T08:21:06.364-07:00Comments on Moss Moments: I establish order.jeniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01353955201144145831noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-90736306273647429852014-11-10T23:02:39.312-08:002014-11-10T23:02:39.312-08:00Beautiful Jen! I do try to think of all your advic...Beautiful Jen! I do try to think of all your advice when I fall apart with the kids. <br />I utterly failed and had a huge meltdown Halloween morning about running late. I've felt so bad for that<br />But I try and I can say today was a great day and I kept my patience and coolChristine suldingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14062534039903907491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-38247141636190627592014-11-05T19:45:47.429-08:002014-11-05T19:45:47.429-08:00Thank you for all your suggestions and advice! Yo...Thank you for all your suggestions and advice! You are amazing!<br /><br />Catherine from WyomingCatherine Andrewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18382279051456917846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-28128127733949756072014-11-03T15:10:22.262-08:002014-11-03T15:10:22.262-08:00Catherine from Wyoming- that would be tough! My ...Catherine from Wyoming- that would be tough! My oldest has always woken up early (5:30, 4:30, etc.) as a result all of my children wake up early. <br /><br />I really think some kids have sensory issues that make it really tough for them to wind down and fall asleep. I've had so many friends who deal with these issues. <br /><br />I think the biggest mistake parents make is giving up on sleep. Personally, I really think ALL kids need sleep. I think kids with sensory issues need more sleep, not less. So, if he were my child I would keep at it. But, you will know better than I do what works for your child. I really believe that.<br /><br />I'm sure you've already tried so many things. There are books and doctors who deal with these issues better than I ever could.<br /><br />Here are a few ideas that come to mind...<br />-focus more on staying in bed than falling asleep<br />-have his room tidy and his bed comfortable (my kids love ikea feather duvets)<br />- put a nightstand by his bed with a small lamp, a box of tissues, a cool alarm clock, a waterbottle, his bible, and two new books from the library that you think he'll love.<br />-cook dinner early, clean up, and have him shower <br />-send everyone to bed, making plans for even you and your husband to read in your bedroom (so the house is dark and quiet)<br />-if he's hyper, just take your book and sit calmly by his bed reading<br />-sometimes rubbing his back, rubbing his feet, just listening to him talk for a few minutes, or lavender oil on his pillow or chest, might help<br />-when my kids are overtired and wound up, I might have to lay right beside them and rub their hair while I say "shhhh"<br />-I've heard weighted blankets are calming<br />-I often read a chapter book that is just above grade level to my kids (like The Hobit). This occupies their mind while their bodies quiet down. <br /><br />They may not be able to fall asleep, but you can still choose when they go to bed. <br /><br />If I'm absolutely done with kids and they are still getting out of bed, I just sit right outside their door with a book I love. That way I'm not cranky, I'm just present. I escort an escape child back in bed, or tell them gently to stop talking and close their eyes.<br /><br />Good luck friend! I know there are many mothers out there who feel your pain!! <br />Jenifer Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16007023509214258698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-75280950258067337412014-11-03T12:53:56.179-08:002014-11-03T12:53:56.179-08:00Ah Jen, what a sweet message this post brings. Wh...Ah Jen, what a sweet message this post brings. While reading the feelings of your heart, I was reminded of the many times we gathered by your chair, after book club, to share our thoughts and feelings. Those are precious memories for me. You have insight and wisdom that I love and appreciate. I was so happy for your family, with your move, but so sad to have you so far away. I am grateful for modern technology for bringing you closer once again. Today was my 1st time visiting your blog site. As I read your heart-felt thoughts, I found myself right back in your family room being touched by your spirit. I find it interesting that those of us who have eternally tested, often times, have the most to offer. Thank you for sharing the most important things with everyone. I am excited to go back to the beginning and read your other posts. Love all of you and still miss you bunches.Karen Starkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09628197458953140563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-59815548136013775582014-11-03T11:31:06.306-08:002014-11-03T11:31:06.306-08:00Great post! I just need to be more patient and tr...Great post! I just need to be more patient and try more of your ideas. Have you ever had a child that just doesn't like to sleep? No matter what routine or when bedtime is they just don't sleep? My oldest has never been a good sleeper since he was born. I love routine and I was very diligent about it. It didn't matter he just doesn't sleep. But then comes the grumpy, onery and very emotional child because of lack of sleep. Uggg!<br /><br />Catherine from WyomingCatherine Andrewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18382279051456917846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-44230475076466218272014-11-03T06:32:33.918-08:002014-11-03T06:32:33.918-08:00You are a great encourager Jen! Thanks for sharing...You are a great encourager Jen! Thanks for sharing, I'm inspired to go create some order in my home!Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11066651322237509170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-21297119863495704502014-11-03T05:44:54.698-08:002014-11-03T05:44:54.698-08:00I love this so much. Thanks for sharing. Your bl...I love this so much. Thanks for sharing. Your blog always gives me something to think about.Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06428217643076611099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574832774101813976.post-83276867869018618922014-11-02T06:31:56.973-08:002014-11-02T06:31:56.973-08:00This is beautiful and so correct…thanks for sharin...This is beautiful and so correct…thanks for sharing!Diane and Chadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13433217217559506422noreply@blogger.com