September 30, 2009
i'm gonna miss this...
Today, Leah woke up early from her nap and decided to empty lily's dresser into lily's crib, while lily was napping.
What a mess... and, what a FLOOD of memories.
I've had toddlers at home before...
I'm starting to remember the trouble they can get into during those quiet times when I think all is well.
The second time around, it's just funny.
I especially loved how easy it was to teach leah her mistake...
i had her clean it up, without help.
She just stuffed everything back into the drawer.
Yes. it was still a mess.
Nope. I wasn't even a little bit mad.
Yes. she was traumatized... sobbing like I had beaten her.
She was sure she needed help, which I only offered by way of encouragement and occasionally handing her a shirt...
I'm pretty confidant that she won't try this again.
Am I a bad mother when I take such pleasure in a child's agony?
i know her pains were growing pains.
FOR SURE, a calm consequence has much more teaching value than the sobbing, frustrated tantrums I used to throw when the kids made a mess.
and they did make a mess!!
oh, the memories.
I love the lines too. How cute!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the reminder, Jen. I am still working on the not freaking out part but I am getting better. I hope that someday I can feel like I really am a good mom. I have my moments but have so many things that I still need to improve.
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