easter 2012.

This was our Easter-- 

we wore our Easter best...

we painted eggs with tole paint...

we dyed eggs with onions and spinach (mixed with green food coloring) and beets...

we found Easter eggs and bubbles...

we ate (just a little) candy...

we did a condensed, child-friendly Christian Passover Sedar...

we ate good food with lots of friends.

i love being a mother.

Easter was good.

Life is good.

Hope you had a lovely weekend!
{looking at this picture of my family i just had the odd feeling that i was missing some...
i counted twice and then laughed.  all there, but not quite.  yup, i just know i'm not done yet.}

He is risen!

we haven't done as good this year as we have in years past at keeping our focus on Christ as we lead up to Easter.
i usually do the bunny stuff on Saturday and Christ all week and Sunday...
not this year.
as leah was going to bed she said, "Mom, is church cancelled tomorrow because the Easter Bunny is coming?"
i laughed and said, "No, Easter is all about Jesus."
with a tone of surprise she said, "Easter is about Jesus??!!"
i sighed.
then she said, "Well, can you tell me what the Easter Bunny looks like when he comes?"

blah.
not my finest mothering hour...
good thing we're not done yet!

Happy Easter!!
how about one more that i love?!!

i'm Christian, even if you're gay.

i've been think a lot lately about truth and the society in which we live.
i read an article "i'm christian unless your gay".
and, i loved this article.
loved it. (maybe it was because first i read the response from a mother who had a son who was struggling... how my heart goes out to these young children who struggle.)
i was surprised.
{note-- in my comments i do quote the one paragraph that i don't agree with}
the tone of this article speaks what i believe MOST.
everyone deserves to be loved- not hated, judged and condemned.
no matter how they are living.
this is how i think, it is who i try to be like.
because LOVING OTHERS is what Christianity is all about.
Christ does not hate gay people.
He hates sin.  He LOVES people.
all of us.
We are, each of us, imperfect, loved and lovable.
We all deserve to be loved FIRST.
More families are torn apart from HATE than kids who struggle with something.
More families are saved by parents who LOVE imperfect children than survive because they have 'perfect' children.
to LOVE others is the GREATEST commandment.
we all struggle with something in life.
some struggle with homosexuality...
i struggle, you struggle... let us love each other in our progressing.
This was a GREAT article.
the end.
the end.
the end.

but, i can't just leave it there... why can't i?
because there is another truth that screams from the corner of my soul.
a truth that worries if we focus ALL on love we will miss part... an important part.

here is my question for you.
do you think there is a GREATER problem in the world with Christian people hating gay people OR with society as a whole teaching that there is NO RIGHT WAY? no wrong way?
is there a greater problem with hate or rampant sin?
Sin that masquerades as good.
BOTH hate and sin are products of Satan.
And, i think he is winning BOTH wars-- he's getting good people to hate and wrong people to believe there is NO wrong.
{i think there is JUST AS MUCH hate in the gay community for religious people as there is in the Christian community for gay people.  in both examples i would say only the extremists.}
our children are JUST AS AT RISK of hurt and heartache and loneliness and agony when we hate sinners as they are when we don't teach them principles that lead to a happy, healthy life.

there are TWO issues here.
1. We should LOVE gay people.
2.  We should not teach that a gay lifestyle is wrong.

I wholeheartedly believe #1 and I wholeheartedly disagree with #2.

i believe that homosexuality is not an ideal lifestyle.
in fact-- i believe that SEX OUTSIDE THE BONDS OF MARRIAGE is a sin that brings unhappiness.
but, more than ANYTHING else, i believe that EVERY person should be loved where they are.
it is not our place to judge.
"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone" John 8:7-- this is a FUNDAMENTAL belief of Christians everywhere.
and this concept applies even to those who are homosexual.
THIS is an amazing talk-- The Merciful Shall Obtain Mercy.
read it!  he quotes a bumper sticker that he saw on a car with a man who looked a bit rough.
the bumper sticker said, "DON'T JUDGE ME BECAUSE MY SINS ARE DIFFERENT THAN YOURS."
i HATE, HATE, HATE when people use other people's imperfection to justify their (even WORSE) sin.
i am a Christian. even if your gay.
Christ's purpose was to SAVE the SINNERS.
i am a sinner.
i am saved by His grace EVERYDAY.
there are worse sins than sex outside of marriage.
if you really want me to JUDGE, i will say that two men who love each other and who are kind, charitable, good people are probably BETTER than many who profess belief in Christ with their mouths but with their actions hate, abuse and condemn.
i believe that.
i also think that promiscuity is widely accepted in America while homosexuality is still persecuted.
both are wrong.  both lead to unhappiness.  both are not healthy.  both will contribute to the downfall of our nation.

just because i think we MUST love everyone no matter what choices they are making...
just because i think that-- doesn't mean i agree with the idea that everyone should just live the life they think will make them happy.
i think we MUST teach TRUTH to our children.
and i think there is a TRUE code for happy living.
we are doing a disservice to humanity when we make morality multiple choice.

i believe it is good to teach children multiplication facts.
i don't believe that children who have not been taught their multiplication facts should be abused or judged or mistreated.
i do not believe that kids who are really good at math are BETTER than kids who struggle with math.
i honestly believe that some children are genetically not as good at math as others.
and even that the kids who struggle with math are often really, really great at other things.
But, teaching children multiplication is important and good.

similarly, i believe there is eternal FACTS that we should teach our children.
facts that are eternally more significant than multiplication.
THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ.


All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.


WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.
you can read the full "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" here.

i read this talk this morning as part of my personal scripture study.
i was reminded of the TRUTH that is taught.
we must hold strong to TRUTH.
as a society we must teach love and unity... but we can teach love AND at the same time teach that there is  right and wrong.
because there is RIGHT and there is WRONG.

This is from a prophet of God... Salvation-A Family Affair.
We don't hear this in today's culture.  But it is true.
I was just going to post a link-- but it is so good that i've copied it fully below.
Oh, i have much to work on...

Today we are aware of great problems in our society. The most obvious are sexual promiscuity, homosexuality, drug abuse, alcoholism, vandalism, pornography, and violence.

These grave problems are symptoms of failure in the home—the disregarding of principles and practices established by God in the very beginning.

Because some parents have departed from the principles the Lord gave for happiness and success, many families throughout the world are undergoing great stress and trauma. Many parents have been enticed to abandon their responsibilities in the home to seek after an elusive “self-fulfillment.” Some have abdicated parental responsibilities for pursuit of material things, unwilling to postpone personal gratification in the interest of their children’s welfare.

It is time to awaken to the fact that there are deliberate efforts to restructure the family along the lines of humanistic values. Images of the family and of love as depicted in television and film often portray a philosophy contrary to the commandments of God.

Innocent-sounding phrases are now used to give approval to sinful practices. Thus, the term “alternative life-style” is used to justify adultery and homosexuality, “freedom of choice” to justify abortion, “meaningful relationship” and “self-fulfillment” to justify sex outside of marriage.

If we continue with present trends, we can expect to have more emotionally disturbed young people, more divorce, more depression, and more suicide.
(hmm... he wrote this talk YEARS ago... he was a PROPHET.)

The family is the most effective place to instill lasting values in its members. Where family life is strong and based on principles and practices of the gospel of Jesus Christ, these problems do not as readily appear.

My message is to return to the God-ordained fundamentals that will ensure love, stability, and happiness in our homes."  

Here is the link to the rest of the talk...  Salvation-A Family Affair.

there is right and wrong.
we are ALL right and wrong.
Christ loves us still.
i love you.
i want to love you more.
He is teaching me how.
life is good.

one.

if i didn't have seven... i wouldn't have HER!!
oh how i adore this child.
ONE year!!  

What a GIFT she is to us all!

drew's list.

my oldest kids are amazingly responsible.
i am continually impressed by their discipline.
i found this list on the counter after the boys went to school.
it's drew's things to do in the morning list...
i asked him if it was for school or scouts or something.
he said it wasn't... it was just to help him remember what he wanted to get done before school.
cute boy.

My favorite is #8.
and, the (if needed) on #4.
and, the ASAP on #12.

last night he said, "Mom, if you want to read a really spiritual scripture chapter, try Alma 5.  It's long, but really good."
isn't he cute? and, he's right.  Alma 5 is great.
{he's always telling me things like this, i think he doesn't know that i study my scriptures while he is at school.}

i love being a mother.
i am continually humbled by the great people i have gotten to know as i've learned to parent them.
today, i want to know them a little bit better and love them a little bit more.

and, i want to cook beans.
real, live, dry beans.
we'll see...

have a good day!
today my eve turns 1...  and on Sunday Anna turned 9... i mean 10... {double digits?!}
my babies are growing up!!??!!

the ideal homemaker- part two {HARD WORK}

{you can read part one- here}

So, we're talking about homemaking.
Can I tell you that there is something inside me that shouts the importance of creating a beautiful, clean, orderly, happy home?
Homemaking is a lost art.

Somehow, as doors began opening for women, we lost the VALUE that comes from old fashioned HARD WORK.
Education is valued in our society.
Beauty is valued in our society.
Cleanliness and Organization are valued.
Wealth is valued.
Being well-rounded, well-traveled, well-versed, well-off-- these things are of value.

But, have we lost the old-fashioned work ethic?
Is physical work as valued as mental enlightenment?
Do we find VALUE and HONOR in physically cleaning our home?
Do we cherish the menial tasks of life?
Eating, cleansing, healing, dressing, caressing?
Whether you work outside the home or stay at home, have many children or have none, all of us are creating a home.
All of us have to care for at least one person, ourselves.

For so much of my life, i have been in a hurry.
I often hear my ancestors questioning my use of TIME.
I have SO MANY time savers-- washing machine, dish washers, redi-made food, no iron clothes, vacuums, cleaning supplies, public schools, a condensed church schedule, technology, etc., etc., etc..
And, what do i DO with all the time i'm SAVING??

What do we do with all of our TIME?
i'm afraid we are continually in search of REST and RECREATION.
we are continually learning, continually exercising, continually planning grand vacations...
why?  have these things brought us greater happiness?  have these things made us better parents?

I think our society is TOO FOCUSED on FUN.
We create lives for our children that are fake.
Sports and standardized testing and amusement parks have replaced true physical labor.
Thank goodness we have sports or our kids would waste away in front of the ever consuming media.
Our culture has drifted so far from the day when those who really worked hard succeeded in life.
Now, we teach our children to do good in school so they will never REALLY have to work.
Are we loosing something essential in our society?
Yes, there is value in LEARNING.
But, there is something life changing about Hard Work.
Caring for our bodies and our homes and our yards are the last form of physical work that any of us have access to.
Do we value that opportunity?

In my life, as i have watched those i love slip into the dregs of addiction, i have noticed something.
Filth comes with sin.
Seriously, I could tell how well they were doing by how physically clean they were.
It may be controversial to apply this too directly to homemaking, but i do believe cleanliness is next to Godliness.
{Note- I have said this 100 times before-- if you can't be clean and be kind, be a KIND slob.  it's better.  Cleanliness is not closer to Godliness than KINDNESS is.  i have issues with people who justify evil actions with good intentions.  Cleanliness is NOT more important than love.  the end.}
I don't believe that if your house is not clean you are less righteous than someone whose house is clean.
But, I do believe that God wants us to have our homes in order.
This is a good priority and He will teach us and guide us as we learn this eternal principle.
Order, cleanliness, and hard work are godly attributes.

It wasn't until i was an adult that i finally understood why i had a mouth full of fillings.
Yes, i brushed my teeth twice daily.
but, i didn't brush well.
i didn't take the time to CLEAN my teeth.
I went through the motions of completing a task without really embracing the purpose of the task.

In one of my favorite books ever, Things I Wish I'd Known Sooner, Personal Discoveries of a Mother of Twelve, Jaroldeen Edwards explains the feminist era that she was mothering in the midst of.  She says,

Dirty Diapers and Dirty Dishes

"Almost always when speakers referred to the role of motherhood they would characterize it by the phrase, "dirty diapers and dirty dishes."  Now that's smart strategy.  In a single phrase, they had captured two of the universally necessary but unappealing activities of mothering, had stripped motherhood to what they (and many others) considered to be its lowest common denominator, and by so doing had neatly denigrated the role and diminished mother and child by reducing their precious relationship to its most menial functions.


"The strategy did not work on me because I already had a large family, and I did not know how I could send any of them "back."  Besides, I understood that raising children meant infinitely more than any ridiculous catch phrase and I absolutely loved the experience of being a mother.  I saw it as a profound career and a noble profession.


"I also knew something about diapering a child that none of the slogan makers apparently did.  As a matter of fact, if there is one thing in this world about which I am an expert, it is probably changing diapers. ... I evaluated for myself what it really means to change diapers.  Is it a demeaning activity for a Phi Beta Phi college graduate?


"To begin with, there is no question that caring for an infant is a meaningful endeavor.  Without the thoughtful, gentle care of a loving adult, babies die!  They die of starvation, disease, filth, and emotional neglect.  There is absolutely no alternative.  Babies must be cared for- and well cared for- or there is no continuation of life on this planet.  A constant supply of the next generation- cared for, educated, and alive- is the single imperative of continued mortal existence.  When we care for an infant, we are dealing with matters of actual life and death; there is nothing casual, demeaning, or unimportant in anything we do.


"However, there is the matter of changing diapers- an inevitable interface of caretaker and child.  In my analysis, I acknowledged that it can be a distasteful task, but also unquestionably one of service, of love, and of cleanliness.


"Furthermore, there is a specific and genuine benefit to the task of diaper changing that elevates it to something quite wonderful.  As anyone who has ever done it will attest, when you change a baby's diaper, it is necessary to look the baby squarely in the eye, to talk, to charm, to woo, to distract, to entertain- to do everything in your power to keep the baby contented, happy and entertained while you perform the tricky maneuver.  You have to be adorable and adoring to accomplish the task.


"I observed that changing diapers requires a mother, several times a day, to interact directly with her baby, eye to eye, face to face, with all the charm she is capable of. ...


"Physically and emotionally, such daily activities as feeding, bathing, and diapering become the taproots of the lifelong relationship between mother and child.  These functions constitute the 'quality time' of infancy.


"I have witnessed a mother diapering her baby and being so charming, adorable, vivid and exuberant that she and the child rang with laughter as beautiful as the sound of golden bells.  ONLY THOSE WHO HAVE NEVER ANALYZED THE REAL VALUE AND PURPOSE OF SUCH ACTIVITIES CAN LOOK AT THEM WITH CONTEMPTUOUS EYES."

Honestly, I could just type the WHOLE book and you would LOVE it.
i loved these two thoughts--
These [menial] functions CONSTITUTE the 'quality time' of infancy.
and that last line,
Only those who have never analyzed the real value and purpose of such activities can look at them with contemptuous eyes.

As I've tried to analyze the real value and purpose of my daily activities, I have come to understand a couple principles better.

When I'm helping I'm happy.  
When I'm working I'm happy.
Physical work is good for my soul.
There is something rewarding about FINISHING a task.
Laundry, dishes, cleaning a bathroom, cleaning out a car, putting a baby down for a nap, bathing a child, even brushing and flossing my teeth.
It FEELS good to work and to FINISH.
There is JOY in hard work.
Alma 36:25 says, "the Lord doth give me exceedingly great joy in the fruit of my labors."

Oh how i have been filled as i studied WORK and IDLENESS in my scripture study this past week.
{JS-H 1:55, Alma 24:18, DC 60:13, DC 75:3, DC 88:118-126, Mormon 9:28, DC 90:18, DC 42:41-42}
I want to consider the ways of the ANT and not the sluggard SLOTH. {Proverbs 6:6}
I am happy when I work hard.

It is NOT that hard to keep a house clean.  Honestly.  We are a lazy people.
I am lazy.
I was talking to a friend about this and she said, "Jen, it's hard work to play with seven kids."
And, that is true.
We are doing A LOT of stuff.
It just isn't always the basic things, the foundational things.
What are we doing with all of our free time?

As i've focused on this principle, my whole attitude has changed.
I'm NOT as focused on FINISHING my tasks quickly so that I can DO something more meaningful.
I'm focused on WORKING HARD.
I'm focused on the example that i'm setting for my children as I find JOY in hard work.
Oh how my attitude is contagious.  And, my children have caught it.
{this is not always a good thing.}
HOUSEWORK is 98% MENTAL and 2% PHYSICAL.
I don't want my children to feel that hard work is drudgery-- I want them to find joy in working and serving.
To do that, I MUST FIND THE JOY FIRST.

First things MUST come first.
Ecclesiastes 10:18 "By much slothfulness the building decayeth; and through idleness of the hands the house droppeth through."

When our homes are in order we can serve better.
Something is wrong with a society of really great soccer players who don't know how to clean a bathroom or work hard.
I have seen my children improve in every area of their life as I have taught them to be neat and tidy at home.
Caring for their bodies, their room, their siblings and their home has taught them valuable lessons that will serve as a foundation on which they can build successful lives.

We CAN NOT escape the need for PHYSICAL care.
FIRST, we must take care of ourselves.
Shower, use lotion, look nice, fill our spiritual tanks.
THEN, we must take care of our homes and our children.
Physically and spiritually.
only after these essentials are cared for can we truly serve others.

I have been teaching my children to be FINISHERS not ALMOSTERS.
This is an easy lesson to teach in the KITCHEN- but the tentacles of application carry far reaching effects.

In my journal i wrote- "Reasons Why I WANT to Work Hard Consistently"
1. I am teaching my children to work hard.
2.  Work is fun!
3.  My attitude about work will be their attitude about work.
4.  I'm not working to be FINISHED- I'm working to build and maintain a functioning home.
Everyday i'm shoveling coal into the engine of my home.
5.  If I work consistently on the basics of life- i will have time to work on the more advanced good things of life.
6.  When I manage the home peacefully, calmly and efficiently my husband and children will be able to build higher and better.
7. When my home is in order I can serve at a moment's notice.
8.  My husband will never feel like he is good enough if our home is not functioning smoothly.
9.  Because there is peace on the other end-- a house of order brings rest to a mother's soul.
10.  Because I am in the business of refinement.  As I work hard my dross is consumed and my gold is refined.

True doctrine, understood, changes behavior more than a study of behavior changes behavior.
I know this is true.
As I've pondered and prayed and studied the value of hard work, i have found myself really KNOWING this principle.
There is something wrong with a society that teaches children to value going to McDonald's on a mom date and to moan and groan when asked to do the dishes.
I need to show my children the joy that comes from a job well done.
These functions constitute the "Quality Time" of childhood.
My children love to cook with me.  They love to clean bathrooms.  They love to create things.
They hate dishes and laundry and going to bed...  hmm?  I wonder who they get that from?

I am SO GRATEFUL for the chores of homemaking.
There is joy in physical labor.
Cleansing is purifying to my soul.
I am so grateful for the many opportunities that I have to groom my children.
To care for their clothes, to check their teeth, to teach them the value of order and consistency.
This is a GREAT work.

Ellie has had issues with her bottom that require me to help her with medicine daily.
I am not always thrilled at the time and attention I have to give to her bathroom behavior.
This evening as she was laying on the floor in the bathroom, giggling as she applied cold lotion to her bottom, i was reminded of the years i wiped her as a baby.
I realized that maybe, this time together was a gift.
These basic needs of life have once more connected us intimately as mother and daughter.
We are laughing together and talking together and spending time together.
I was grateful for the time we were spending on a menial task.

These mundane tasks of life are quality time.
Those who really analyze the value and purpose of such activities will see them with eyes of gratitude and wonder.
I know it.

I am happy to be a homemaker.
There is Joy to be found in Life's menial tasks.
Cleansing, Feeding, Clothing, Healing... these are the GREAT works of life.
Life is good.

Edited to ADD--
Yes, this post is about teaching our children to work hard.
But, it is NOT just about teaching our children to work hard.
It is about WORKING HARD ourselves.
I see over and over again one trap that parents (myself included) fall into, is pridefully pointing fingers at our lazy children and not evaluating our own work ethic.
Children learn what they live.
The best way to teach your children to be hard workers is to WORK HARD beside them.
When i am happily cleaning, my children migrate to me.
They naturally LOVE to help out- we teach them to hate work because WE whine about it.
i remember thinking, when i was young and pregnant with my first, that i was going to NEVER give him sugar.
I thought i was going to say, "Eat your dinner, and then, if you're good, you can have an APPLE!"
I learned early on to say with excitement to my sleepy child, "Oh look!  You want to go to your NICE BED!"
I should have thought about saying, "Hurry up with your piano practicing and then, if your good, you can help me clean the floor!"  :)

I have been on MANY hikes with Young Women.  There are always the whiners and those who physically struggle with the hike.  Usually, I am one that sings and encourages and bounces up the hill offering to carry other people's packs.  Singing, "Come on girls, we can do this!!"
I am not always a Young Women Leader MOTHER.  I don't always whistle while i work.  I don't always watch my attitude and my words and encourage my children with the same zeal i have encouraged others.  I am not so good at motivating MYSELF.
i should wake up humming and happy to climb my mountain-- i should tie my apron on with ZEAL... dab lipstick on my lips, put a flower in my hair and be GRATEFUL for my daily responsibilities.
This is a beautiful world we live in.  We are so blessed.  It is a BLESSING to be able to work.

We not only need to clean our homes more, we need to teach the world that there is value in the doing.
Cleaning is not something to be put at the bottom of our list so that we can do things that really matter.
There is value in menial tasks-- changing diapers, washing floors, doing dishes, cooking dinner, clipping fingernails, tucking in your children to bed, folding laundry... these are the small tasks that lay the framework for our society.
We are blessed to be able to serve our family.
We are blessed to have the financial means and standard of living such that we can wash our windows and we have so many clothes our drawers are packed.
It is a sacred stewardship that as mothers we should value and appreciate.
Today there is MUCH focus on MOTHERING... as there should be.
But Homemaking is still demeaned.
The mothers who are heralded as amazing mothers are mothers who are actively engaged in worthwhile endeavors outside of the home.
I believe stability in our nation will return if our HOMES are in order.
If we return to basic principles of cleanliness and order at home children would be taught the skills needed to succeed.
There is value in making a home.
Children deserve to be raised in a home where they are provided the basics of life.
Food, Safety, Cleanliness, Nurture and Education.
I am going to start with my home.
I am going to find joy in the WORK of my home.
I believe that as I am feeding and cleansing and serving my family I am creating the framework for a successful society.
What a great work!

Christian Passover.

we are home as of late last night.
i am 35.
i loved being home with my family- listening to inspiring talks on tv.
i can't wait to re-listen to them so i can soak them in.
eve is walking from place to place- not just a few wobbly steps.
i have decided the only way to loose these last 15 or so pound of baby weight is to stop carbs and meat for awhile.
i'm starting tomorrow.
(maybe this will help me be more consistent...)
todd told the kids that i was pregnant (as an april fools joke.)
they are so excited and hoping for twins or triplets.
i'm not sure that he told them it was a JOKE before we sent them off to school.
yup. the whole town will know about it before the end of the day.
see resolution above.
i better loose this belly or soon all my new friends will be lovingly carressing it and congratulating me on my new pregnancy.
as i was following my kids to the car after a lunch at costco this weekend a man in a construction truck rolled down his window and asked, "Are these all your kids?"
i smiled and said, "YUP!  Crazy, I know."
he smiled back and said, "You aren't crazy at all.  Your family is beautiful.  Congratulations.  Congratulations!! That's just great."
cute man.
honestly, people always talk about the rude comments they get with a large family.
i can't even remember a rude comment.
MOST people are super kind and smiling when they see us in all of our glory.
we were in our big-family glory this past week (especially at the art museum).
pictures to come.

PASSOVER

Here is the link to Passover we did in 2010 (in Idaho with our family as we celebrated the life of my little nephew who only lived a few hours.)

And here is a link to the Passover the year before (this is the Jesus Meal not Passover).

My favorite family tradition we do is Easter PASSOVER Dinner- On Good Friday.
The Last Supper was actually a Passover feast (Jesus was Jewish).
As you do the Passover you will be eating and reading things similar to what Christ would have eaten with his disciples.
It is basically a read along play followed by a chicken dinner.
It is fun and beautiful and not too hard.
On Easter DAY we do a "Jesus Meal" where i try to feed my kids what Jesus would have eaten... olives, figs, grapes, fish, pita, etc...  It's usually like a cheese and crackers type meal- easy and fun.

If you want to do PASSOVER dinner this Friday, this is what we do.
Basically it is just a chicken dinner with a few extra things.
I usually just buy the stuff that is on the end cap at the grocery store.

This is what i bought this year...

Look for Matzoh Ball soup-- it's so yummy!
Matzoh crackers (they're like big saltines- but my kids don't eat tons so a small box is usually fine.)
Grape Juice (I like the kind specifically for the Passover.)
I bought a fun Mexican/Cross/Glass candle a few years back and we use this on our table every year.
And, i always buy some gross gelled fish- just so the kids will squeal and the fathers will take turns being man enough to try it.
This year i got some beets- because they looked fun.

I print out a script for each person attending.
I set the table really nice (with stemmed glasses that i bought for 25 cents each) and cloth napkins.

Here are the special food things you will need...

Lamb (i use chicken), pita bread or matzah crackers, parsley or watercress, horse radish, Haroset (applesauce mixed with walnuts), eggs, wine or grape juice.

On the table have flowers and several unlit candles. You will need a special platter with the following foods in specified order. Also a pitcher of wine or grape juice. A cup of salt water. A Bible. Each person should have a glass and a plate with parsley, haroset, and some horse radish. An empty wine cup should be set in the center of the table.

On the platter:

• 1. Three matzah (can use pita bread).
• 2. Bitter herbs (or horse radish).
• 3. The shank of a lamb.
• 4. A roasted egg (hard boiled is OK).
• 5. Haroset (applesauce with nuts, cinnamon, honey and wine).
• 6. Parsley or watercress. 

Here is a copy of the script that i print out-- it's jpg, but email me and i'll email you a version you can edit if you want it.  My email is toddnjenifer@peak.org.

Happy Easter Week!

I'm off to be consistent!!
and, i still need to buy some horseradish and parsley.
good thing i checked before Friday!
did you have a good weekend?